Banish all mummy guilt. Whether you had a long labour or not is not something you could control.

You did not cause your DS's ADHD.

There are so many better things to feel guilty about as a mum, like not buying your kids the latest smash 'em up, shoot 'em down video game that all their friends have that they really want, making them go to bed at a reasonable hour so they get enough sleep while their friends are allowed to stay up late, and not buying the latest One Direction album because you hate the music

Let go of the guilt It doesn't help him and it doesn't help you xxx