Yes. Get the referral. I wish someone had paid more attention to DD1 because she's now 14 and still doesn't have a clue - except now the behaviour is 10 years more ingrained in her. The penny has now dropped and she's on a waiting list to be assessed for ADD/ASD, except at this age it's a ****load harder to get help for her.

Also - get him a thorough medical check up, including screening for sleep disorders, eyesight and hearing.