well i got my job right at the end of yr 12 and i think it did stuff up my schooling but that was because i had a boyfriend and got lazy i rekon if i had the job earlier i would have been a lot better at using my time
I had a part time job from year 9 through to the end of year 12 and I managed to do that and all of my school work - I did my degree at Melbourne Uni so I got a good result at the end of it. It really taught me how to manage time, study, work and my budget. I say that year 11 is a perfect time for her to start learning how to balance her work and study.
I had a job from Year 9 to Year 12 and I think it was a positive thing - you can always plan in advance to take some time off around exams or due dates if you need to, but I think it was useful for time managment and also to be in a work environment before you leave school.
However, I'm not sure how you're going to make her get a job if she doesn't want one - just withold the money?, because won't she just sabotage the interview process?
I had a part time job since before I was legally allowed to, lol. I worked part time from year 9 till the end of VCE, then picked up a second part time job through most of my Uni. Still managed to get my Bachelor of Science degree with first class honours (3 majors and 2 minors). Good grades are definitely possible while holding down a part time job
I agree that good grades are possible combined with work - not sure how you go with the motivation to get that tho....certainly a desire for $$ may be the only way. IMO it is a really important lesson - gotta work hard to get good results/lifestyle etc. Good luck - let us know how you go 'cos I am SURE we will be in the same spot down the track....
p.s. I'm currently about to start year 12, although did year 11 last year through adult education courses, (dropped out in year 10 to work overseas, went back last year yada yada yada). I did that all with a part-time job, paying rent, bills, groceries, my own books, everything. I still passed year 11 with all of that, so I'm sure your DSD will be able to do it too if she wants to. I think it was Lulu who said year 11 isn't as much of a big deal; so true! I reckon withhold all $$, and once she realises there isn't any money coming in from you or her dad to buy all he things she wants, she might start enjoying the idea of a PT job more and more
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