OK, I think we'll stick with what we're doing - withhold all pocket money, not FORCE her to get a job but just wait until she gets sick of having no money. We HAVE told her that she's getting no money until at least her first school report so this is not a surprise to her.

Her pocket money was meant to cover all her expenses - clothes and going out so basically no pocket money means we don't buy her anything. At all.

I think she's sponging off her friends at the moment. I'm sure that will wear a bit thin with them. Most of them work