you have done the right thing by contacting docs. I dont blame the boy for wanting to keep it a secret. I did too when it happened to me coz i knew it would make my dad angrier. Its a hard situation and i do thankyou so much for offering the boy to stay with u. He does need to get out of there. Pity is tho.. Doc's only seem to give a **** when it has gone too far and its the boys word against the adults. its a tough situation....