This could end up being confusing, I hope not, but apologies if it is.

DD1 is in kindy. One of her best friends is in yr1. I am good friends with this girls mum, lets name her H.
H and I have a great friendship, we hang out most days, talk daily.
This year, there has been this yr1 mum, lets call her W, who is friends with H, who has made it clear she doesnt like me. Even H has noticed that she doesnt like me, for no other apparent reason other than my friendship with H.

About a month ago H tells me about the birthday party that W is planning for her dd in yr1. It had come up in reference to a conversation we had about how busy october was with birthday parties.
Then last sunday H and I were out together, and we ran into W. W starts talking about her dd's party with H, then randomly looks at me and asks if DD got her invite. Thats the first Ive heard about an invite.
Anyhow then on tuesday, her dd gives my dd an invite to her party... Its this saturday! (this was done in front of H and was quite dramaticly delivered)

I dont feel like its a real invite, if that makes sense? The invite and the whole situation doesn't feel good or right to me.

WWYD?