Pet rant of mine about how starting reading too early and pushing homework sets up a brain that fears learning. Schools are their own worst enemies these days thanks to government targets.

I'd talk to the school and only do the activities she is getting benefit from. It is hard, I know, but your daughter will catch up. My son did when I decided to do our own thing. We still do, as school reading does not inspire him. He's not brilliant, but is where he should be according to the system.