Dianne,

I feel for you, I really do. I have been in your situation with my middle DD, and it is the hardest thing to deal with. Especially when the school is obviously not taking it seriously and letting the bully rule! Do they not have a bullying prevention system? Do they have a bullying policy? It is totally not fair that your DD is getting told off as well, she is the victim in this! They did the same to my DD! It happened over a number of years and because the school would not take it seriously I did contact the education department, always do it in writing, that way you have a paper trail and it take the emotional side out of it, its not your word against them. I always contacted the principal via email, and then cc'd to the education department. It needs to be dealt with properly! Good luck!!