Wysiwyg, just wondering about the communication book you are referring to? I am envisaging the book at daycare where you are told of the days happenings..

However I too would be upset if this was the first I heard of any issues. I personally do get to my child's school as I don't work f/t, however I have friends at the same school that can't get there in school hrs, and all have had contact from teachers for various things. So I don't think them contacting you is too much.

I would suggest having another meeting with the teacher and escalating it if you are not satisfied after the next meeting.