Thanks Girls, I am feeling like I have let him down by not sending him to cc, I could have gone back to work and then we would have just been able to scrape it in, but there didnt seem much point me going to work just so he could go to day care ITMS??

J tells me that there are 2 people he plays with, another J and a little girl, but then he had a bit of a falling out with the boy as he threw wood chips at him.. the story goes that they were throwing them at everybody then Josh turned and threw them at Jacob, so Jacob doesnt want to play with him anymore...

The girl, mia, we hear about every day, according to the director she is a "mother" type who has taken J under her wing. But today J said that Mia wouldnt play with him because she had to play with someone else... he was very sad

I chose this kindy because its such a small local community, within walking distance and I plan on sending him to the primary school attached.

The director came up to have a chat the other day because Jacob had been pushed off the slippery dip, face firt into the bark, they had to administer first aid etc.. she was very impressed as J got up, and told the kid who pushed him, that it wasnt nice and he shouldnt do it "you hurt me!" had it been 6 weeks ago, J would have run up and smacked him in the head! (true, he would have, I have been very concerned about his violent outbursts, part of the reason I didnt want to send him to CC)
This parenting gig is pretty tough sometimes hey?