All the single ladies! Update time....

[Lulu]

How is everyone??

I know we are a quiet lot, but I'm assuming it's because we are all so stuffed. I know I am.

I'm still bunfighting with xp, but we manage to get it together enough that the kids feel pretty secure, it's not easy though.
DS is going through an autism/aspergers assessment atm, and is being a right handful at school and at home. Lucky Xp knows how hard it can be and is happy to come and help out during the times I feel like hiding under the bed.
DD is playing up too, and is doing the "I'm not going to bed" routine each and every night and that is doing my head in.

Apart from that , I'm plodding along ok, trying to keep up with everything and looking after my mums dog that needs to be medicated twice a day.....like I need more responsibility

So how are things in your world?

[Floweryfields]

Well I am a single lady, but I don't have kids, so don't know if I qualify! But I do will alot of the crappy stuff of life just the same like paying the bills on my own, etc,e tc.
But I am going, well, I guess I am just going, not much else you can do hey, you can't just make the right man come into your life can you.
Joined an online match making thing and the first guy I had the courage to 'smile' at disappeared off the thing! Didn't leave me brimming with confidence to do it again

[C~Q]

I'm doing well Lu - what does bunfighting mean? It sounds a little dirty...

I'm teaching lots, the kids are clean, fed and clothed! They have finally all hit the age where I can have a lazy day of not getting out of bed and they won't destroy the house, which was tested out quite succesfully yesterday!

The man front is looking pretty barren (they're all smelly and stoopid anyway) so i'm concentrating on work and the kids and if a bloke comes along then great, if not then stuff it!

Ausgirl - course you do!

[widdly]

Hi Lulu

My DS is being rather difficult lately, similar to your DD, fights bed time every night, begging to sleep in my bed and asking for dummies again 3 weeks after giving them up. He has been super clingy to me, tells me he loves me about 1000 times a day, and if I dont respond and tell him I love him too, he gets all sooky, drives me bonkers! Yes i love you, now shut the heck up! He is majorly favouring me over his Dad, wanting me to make his sandwich/get hima drink etc.

DH is living in his own house most of the time now which is great, its giving me time to myself to sort myself out and he has finally come to the realisation that his life will not stop without me, he will be ok if we never get back together.

Those of you who remember Sunday Night Guy, he text me the other night asking if i was interested in getting together when we are sober as he really though I was a nice person and he wants to get to know me a bit better. Of course this threw me into complete confusion again. SNG and I texted each other all night, nothing untoward, just everyday stuff, the convo ended on him saying GL with everything and making your decisions, hope your future will be one I can be a part of...I doubt it, but its nice to know I am wanted LOL

Counselling has been going great guns, I am so much stronger and more assertive than ever, I rarely let DH manipulate me these days. I am still very undecided on whether I want to be with DH still or be single, foot loose and fancy free....

Am trying to get enrolled in cert 3 childrens services next semester when DS starts full time kindy, cant wait.


So that is me in a nut shell

ausgirl - i did have a little giggle at the guy you liked disappearing off the site, gosh way to knock you down! Keep going girl, Im sure it had nothing to do with you at all x

CQ - love your attitude to men atm, i wish all women were like that, how strong we would be! woohoo at being ablew to stay in bed with out the house being trashed

[Amity]

Awesome idea Lulu, great to see you again girls.

I'm still plodding along, work is crazy, having issues with my council about a fence, and my children are gorgeous. We've lost some teeth, and DS2 is in kindy, so really grown up.

Men wise, can't really be bothered, have a FWB but can't even be bothered with him atm. Spending my precious little free time on catching up with girlies and working far too hard.

So that's me in a nutshell!

[widdly]

Yay, Div, another strong woman who doesnt need to rely on a man to make her happy, I am working on getting there myself, and actually I sort of am there, thats why Im not all that interested in DH atm...or SNG