sweetbabymumma, I have been the jealous girlfriend too hun. XH bestie was a woman and she was always trying to turn him against me and be awful to me and make me look like i was making a mountain out of a mole hill. I ended up getting her to confess that she in fact loved XH and wanted to marry him and have his babies. Their friendship ended there and then, without me interfering. It is awful when that happens so i feel for you.

cassius, she is no friend of mine, she is my bestie's SIL thats all, my bestie had her birthday at her brothers house so the SIL was there. I would never choose to be friends with such an insecure drama queen.