I'm not going to call. If I was going to say anything, I'd probably have done it by now. But if he ever does call again, I don't think I'll be able to help myself.

These things have happened a lot over the last 2 years. Promises of birthday presents, or money but not actually doing anything about it. He promised DD1 he'd put $100 in the bank for her birthday last year... he didn't bother, but then put $100 in for DD2. DD2 & DS were the only ones he bothered with. This year none of them got anything.
But I was left pretty confused. Do I bring it up & tell DD the money hadn't gone in? Or just leave it. I didn't want her thinking I'd gone & spent it & not told her or something (at her age she could've been thinking it), but I just left it.

Now when DD2 talk about how he's taking them camping, poor DD1 just rolls her eyes. She doesn't say anything, but she already knows better. That's just screwed up & I still can't believe this is our life :/ This is the person I chose to marry & have kids with