he just said im not real big on xmas.. not real big on giving gifts etc... i just left it at that and said im really big on xmas its my favourite time of year
Great problem solved! Sweetie you're being too kind to this guy. Sounds like you've just been given a pass to make your own plans without consulting him. I wouldn't necessarily offer to drop into his mum unless you really want to or it's easy for you. YOU'RE the one with the baby, and its her granddaughter, if it means anything to her, she will come to you. As for XP pfffffffffft