Just did a massive post and it vanished!!!

So now, the short version!

FOB did not turn up as arranged to have Alex.....as in if he cam now, it would be 24hrs late!!
Not answering his phone, ignoring sms's etc.

How do I handle this? He does usually turn up (2hours late on average) but I had a feeling the novelty was wearing off......

I kinda hope he is on lifesupport in hospital, yes I know I am evil but mess with my son, you mess with me!

Thankfully Alex still young enough to not really know, but we are getting closer to an age where his little heart will break if his dad doesnt turn up