Did you revert to your maiden name after you separated?

[~Trish~]

Oh, so sorry you are going through this .

My parents divorced when I was 3 years old, my mum kept her married name so that we shared the same surname (she raised the three of us all by herself). She remarried when I was 13 and changed her surname then.

[Jahzara]

[Freya]

I wouldnt have done it til we got divorced. Even then I prob couldnt be bothered, and it would have kept our (the kids and I's) surnames the same. But I like my married name better than my maiden name.

[Lulu]

Yep.
But I only had 50% of the stuff changed over to my married name anyway because I wasn't prepared to let go my maiden name for everything.

bet that didn't help at all....

[Pandora]

I think its important to have the same surname as my kids.
If I got divorced, I'd want to change my name back but I'd only do it if I could change all my kids names to my maiden name as well.

[Arimeh]

I changed mine when the divorce came through, as I needed the divorce certificate to change it with Queensland transport for my drivers licence and nobody would let me change anything else without that done first

I have a different surname to my kids now though because I didn't change it when I remarried.

[Lulu]

My kids don't even have the same surnames, tee hee, doesn't bother us - one has my surname and one has his.

[Heaven]