Divorce

[nothing2lose]

Oh Clover. It's like you are reliving my life

Hugs to you and remember, you have won each and every day you wake up and he is not part of your life

[~clover~]

I know that I'm just waiting for it to end, & while we have kids together, I don't think it ever will.
If he hasn't started to grow up at 30, he never will...

[nothing2lose]

My ex is almost 40 and he is still a child. They never change.

Thankfully they are someone else's problem now.

[Sopdet]

yup, mine is the same, I assume still is, haven't heard from him in a while (thank the gods), but he was the biggest child & if whoever he is with now allows that behaviour (which I assume they would) then he will be a child until the day he dies, taking no responsibility for his actions, not growing as a person, blaming everybody else for his problems and lying through his teeth to do a whole "poor me" thing

[cate202]

Haha pp... you describe my ex to an absolute T!! he's exactly like that too! nasty and disloyal as well... it was great to finally wake up one day and realise there was no changing him

[Footsteps]

How are things S? Hope your ok huni xx

[~clover~]

Me? I'm fine. Nothing has changed. They have a baby due in a couple months. No one has applied for a divorce.
Still no help/child support etc. CSA actually called me a few weeks to say they didn't think there was any way to get any amount of money out of him.

But I'm happy He thinks he's winning by controlling me with no money. That really doesn't worry me as much as he'd like! lol. Yeah, I can't believe I married someone who's basically wiped his 4 kids out of his life, but I'm working now, we move into a 4 brm house tomorrow & I have the bestest friends ever

I wish he could see just how little he is affecting my life