Who are they small reasons to? DH, Uncle or you?

Do you think uncles relationship to DH coloured the conversation a little? I mean fair enough, blood is thicker than water and all that...and he is a bloke after all. I don't mean to minimise the conversation between you two at all, but uncle is only one person.

You have mentioned something about DH debts, or crapness with money before so I'm gonna take that and run like hell with it...just for examples sake

To me - running up STUPID debts is an absolute KILLER reason. Uncle might not think so. Lotsa blokes thing going into debt for an SS Clubsport Ute is a totally valid thing. Those blokes should marry chicks that think its a fair thing too...

Anyhoo, to me that could be a matter of trust. Trust is huge isn't it? How can you imagine a future with a guy when it means constantly being behind financially...or who puts his own needs before the family?

So one reason to one person is nothing to another.

Keep up your conversations...with lots of trusted friends. If you don't want to go further on the boards you could come into the closed Single Parents group of the Family Crises Group.

I still can't give people valid reasons for leaving DH1. But I still did and still know it was the right thing then.

xoxoxoxo Hang in there my Widdly friendxoxoxo