What he had to say to me made me wild with anger and I no longer have any guilt over the break up what so ever. He is a selfish, lying, disrespectful d!ck with absolutely no balls.
He admitted that he has been completely ignoring our issues, hoping i would get over it and things would stay as they were. One word comes to ming atm, it starts with C and ends with T!!
Archie has been an angel since I completely ended it, so i am 100% that the right decision has been made for us
Thankyou all so much for helping me get to this point x
thats just awsome!!!!! i really hope u have inspired some other ladies to do the same thing! ur a legend and an awsome mummy for doing that! well done to you! i can just hear the spring in your voice!!
Hate to say it but that was the impression I got from your last lot of posts. I just wasnt going to assume on it. But well done on sticking up for yourself!
Wow, good for you!
I would never actively suggest someone walk away (specially since I don't know you irl) but I have to say I'm so proud of you for doing what you needed to do and for having the courage of your convictions, you're setting the best possible example for Archie just by not accepting less than you deserve.
Massive hugs girl, you should be proud of yourself and he deserves a big smack!
One thing I have learnt with a man is when they say "I was just thinking about that", you need to dig a little deeper. He could well have been thinking about it... Thinking 'phew, got away with that one'.
It also saves you horrific budget salvaging later.
But with a swappable shift not being swappable and only having "thought about" something as easy as sitting down with a box of scrabble.. Nah. Some men honestly do think that if they ignore it long enough we will just learn to deal. They honestly believe they are that indespensible that we would give up anything to keep them. Got tickets on themselves bad.
happy happy happy so so happy!!!
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