One thing I have learnt with a man is when they say "I was just thinking about that", you need to dig a little deeper. He could well have been thinking about it... Thinking 'phew, got away with that one'.
It also saves you horrific budget salvaging later.
But with a swappable shift not being swappable and only having "thought about" something as easy as sitting down with a box of scrabble.. Nah. Some men honestly do think that if they ignore it long enough we will just learn to deal. They honestly believe they are that indespensible that we would give up anything to keep them. Got tickets on themselves bad.
Oh Elissa ... i for one kinda know YOU gave every ounce that you had left in to you to make the relationship work, no unturned stones with you ... YOU did everything humanly possible ... For that YOU can always stand tall & PROUD
We know you did it for Arch foremost then yourself a close second, what devoted Mother wouldn't !!
If Archie ever needs to know a bit about what you tried to do to help 'things' YOU can count on alot of women here on this website that have taken an interest in a BEAUTIFUL MOTHER'S (that's you ELISSA) journey in trying to whole heartedly DO just that
Your on a 'better' journey now ... and we are ALL here to do what we can if you ever need help along the way ok !!
Hugs to you from Lorelle (and i still plan on catching up with you one day ) xoxox
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