I am so hurt, confused, unaware of what I am supposed to do... EF has officially moved into the house against my will due to the fact that his name is on the lease and I don't make enough on my own. He has taken the spare bedroom and my heart. He comes home after work and plays with DD and then leaves to go to the bars with friends (female) and not come home at night. I don't even know who this man is anymore. He tells me on a regular basis how sorry he is that he doesnt love me or thinks of me romantically anymore. He says it nicely which makes me even more angry. He and I constantly are bickering..sometimes even in front of DD...I hate saying that because I know it is completely WRONG...but he just waltzes in and acts so HAPPY!. It hurts my heart and I don't know how I am supposed to act...The therapist says he doesnt know how to love due to his childhood and is a huge liar...very deceptive...So how do I act? If I act like I don't care he goes out of his way to hurt me more...If I act sad and cry he says thinks that make me feel pathetic and useless....