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they are amazingly selfish! So Matty's dad could afford to have a holiday at the snow with his girlfriend but couldnt aford $50 for his sons birthday present?? Sounds so darn familiar!
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yep this is true...
oh and don't forget the new clothes he was wearing and the new sunnies....
He is out at fancy bars EVERY weekend (facebook lets me find this out) OMG i cant remember the last time i went down to the local pub....
BUT you know what.. im actually happy.. he is not around to annoy the crap outta me and we hardly talk anymore... PLUS i have my son.. EVERY DAY.. im the lucky one here....
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yes, we are definately the lucky ones, we have our precious boys.
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What an a**h*le!
It's men like that that really p**s me off!
Major hugs for you hun
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thanks Liz.
was chatting to my Aunty who was with XH on the weekend, she says to me "dont be too hard on him, had the weekend off anyway cause he had tickets to take you to the Jimmy Barnes concert, but then you left him". I dont believe that for a second! I know he didnt have the weekend off for a start, and why would you buy tickets then not tell me when it was his last chance at saving the mariage??!! Am really angry at my Aunt for taking his side too, but I know what she is like, she loves creating drama for others.
So yesterday I was SO down in the dumps about everything.
But today is a new day and I am having a happy one. XH is in New Zealand living it up, hasn't called DS all week or asked me how he is or anything, typical. I just wish he would have the balls to stand up to me and have an arguement so i can get some of this emotion out on him, instead of him walking away and ignoring everything
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Widdly, I have just one thing to say.
A life well lived, enjoyed, and loved, is the best revenge.
Don't worry about him. Let him make his own choices. Live your own life and love yourself.
I dont understand fathers who dont want to know how their kids are...
XP hasnt seen Matty since his bday on 2 August, and i havent heard from him for about a week, i feel like writing "oh by the way your son is doing great incase you want to know or give a crap" but no... why should i waste 15c on a text message to him
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divvy - that is great advice, I am going to write that in bold letters and stick it all over my house!
georgie - F em!
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the same for mothers aswell.
ds's mum hasnt seen him since the school holidays was 6 montsh before that and will be another 6 months till we take him to see her, she wont come here to see him. and she doesnt ring or even email him now. poor kids.
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Sounds like a couple of fathers could stand to pay a bit more child support.
hey i would just be happy with ANY child support.. i have not received any for over a month... and the CSA is USELSS
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kawazuki - poor little boy x
yeah, more CS is definately needed! XH hasnt done his tax this year yet, I am hanging out for him to do it cause Im pretty sure CS will go up considerably.
yeah dont you love it how they dont put in their tax return straight away.... my ex hasnt done it for like 6 years so the CSA only go on a estimate he gives them.. which of course is a LIE!!!!!!
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how can he not do it for 6 years, isnt there some kind of penalty for that?
yep...
lets just say that if the ATO was to audit him he would be up ****e creek for ALOT of things... no tax return, running a business WRONG... i wouldnt be surprised if he ended up with more than a fine..
BELIEVE me i have been tempted to dob him in.. all my friends tell me i should.... but then i wouldnt get a cent out of him and unfortunately I have tooooo much of a contious to do it....
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far out! Hope you get some money outta him soon! Sounds like a bit of a scumbag
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I'm a bit slow off the mark to respond to this one! But in a way I know how you feel. It sucks when you give so much of yourself to someone and put in so much effort and they let you down without seeming to care.
It's hard to comprehend their behavior, and whilst we are rational, intelligent women and know we deserve better, it still hurts. How can they act that way when they were supposed to love us forever.
Hope that makes sense and I haven't made it worse for you. Just that I think we're in a similar boat and it's a cr@ppy boat to be in! Good people should never have to feel these feelings. We deserve love and happiness and it's coming girl don't worry. After this storm there will be a rainbow.
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