I am fuming!

[georgiegrl]

I agree....

Mum keeps saying the same thing to me... it will come back and get him... he will be the one suffering... just u wait....

[widdly]

your mum is right I reckon. For what its worth my XH is miserable without me, whilst it makes me feel guilty, it also makes me feel a bit good like Im not the only one going through such a hard time atm

[georgiegrl]

yeah my XP isn't miserable... he has a new gf and is apparently the happiest he has ever been... pffft whatever

[widdly]

well he must be such a lovely guy to be the happiest he has ever been living away from his son...

[beaver]

Good point! He must be "happy" being away from the mother of his child and his child. . . I wonder if mine is "happy", that would explain how mean-spirited he can be (sure he is not happy with us being so argumentive and that it is why he is mean-spirited. . . Externalising it onto me - Oh the counsellor in me lol). . .

[georgiegrl]

Thats it hey....

I mean he goes on and on and on at how much he looooooves his son and how important he is and how much he misses him....

Yet he only sees him once a week IF THAT and its usually for about an hour.... he used to come see him almost every day.... and he never asks how he is or calls or text to see how he is or if there is anything he needs....

he is not mattys father... just a sperm donor that wont go away