Butterfly I think you and I are very similar in that you show a lot of maturity for your age, and everyone on these boards keeps saying the same about me.

You are doing a great job and Grace is soooooooooooooooooo lucky.
He is only being detrimental to himself and his own relationship with his child by popping in whenever he feels bothered to.. She will eventually get to an age if this continues that she will realize you have been much more stable and it will affect the way she sees him in the future.

Lots of hugs from me and Vinny xo

I've done some late night/morning researching and discovered some WONDERFUL sounding family conflict resolution etc. counselling type services in our town.. so that is fantastic, maybe the next step for me and J in our situation.

I've just spent the last 5 mins watching my belly bouncing around as Vinny kicks the crap outta me. Its so magical i can't stop grinning. love that feeling