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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2008
    Over The Rainbow
    1,142

    Thanks Leesa and alan means alot you have no idea
    i had the best weekend too only for it to come tumbling down getting that phonecall. why do i have to let it bother me so much

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    Mar 2008
    Waterloo, Merseyside, UK
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    huge hugs em. no real advice but from experience hes going to be the one to lose out and as she gets older she will see for herself hes not bothering. its sad for you as a mum to watch but you are doing fantastically. xox

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    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    Castlemaine
    436

    Oh hun you are such a strong woman and an amazing mum to Grace! I honestly don't know how you do it, you are a much more patient woman than I! I don't really have any advice for you, but know I'm here if you want to chat. Hang in there hun

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    Aug 2009
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    You're doing an amazing job holding down the fort and playing mum and dad role to your little miss! Just remember you are a strong, idependant woman! You are doing fantastic solo and that's something to be proud of!

    Huge hug to you

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    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2005
    Limestone Coast, SA
    2,671

    oh hunni, its terrible how much they still can control our emotions. We alwasy try to do the best for our children and they somehow feel perfectly happy with continuing on with their selfish ways, not giving too much of a thought to their child. I just always try and hopw that Karma will catch up with XH sonner or later and he will have his comeuppance.

    hugs x

  6. #6
    rhyb Guest

    *big hugs* They get to us cz they hurt us right where it gets us the worst- our kids. DS cant understand it now but Ill be fielding questions for the rest of his and the girls lives about 'Wheres daddy?' and 'Why dont I see him?' etc. Its hard but its worth it with ever little cuddle from DS.

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    4

    god i know exactly how you feel. It didn't make me mad it made me sad. so all i can say is hang in there. its worth it for little one.

    as hard as it is, you are not alone

    always here to talk to if you want

  8. #8
    Registered User

    May 2006
    Igglepiggle Land
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    It bothers you so much because you don't want to see your DD get hurt by him, either now or in the future...

    You're her mum and protecting her - totally natural. You want what is best for her. Which is not being stuffed around by her own father!