Thank you for the replies. It's never gone through court *yet* as we are able to speak on good terms and usually but out a decent parenting plan ourselves. It's just now, I'm not happy, the kids are mucking up more and more, I'm frustrated with so much with him and his parenting style...and his attitude!
His mother also likes to voice her opinion on everything and don't get me started on his DF lol
Ive considered mediation before, but never done it. I do wonder what their views would be on the care arrangement given the ages of the kids and circumstances etc
Divvy thanks for clarifying that. I was told 12 by our case worker at the time, I was going on that.
Rosetti contacting Relationships Australia is probably the best first step. Ask all your questions and sort out where to go next. My X and I never went to court in the end, but we found the meditation so incredibly helpful we both felt heard by our case worker. I saw her privately twice before we sent the letter to X asking him to come in for a meeting. Highly recommend it, that way new partners, parents, friends even the mailman are not in on the decisions for your children at all.
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