looking for support ... my story isn't fiction i promise

[beckoes]

just wanted to send you some big hugs and hope you manage to find a way for you and your littleman to be happier! Sounds like something has to give soon!! hugs

[Butterfly Child]

aww hunny you sound like through such a hard time hunny im so sorry your dealing with so much if you ever need anyone to talk to hunny im here babe
i agree with what the other ladies have suggested seeing your gp etc
Your doing AN AMAZING JOB dealing with all of this and being strong for your little boy hunny!!

[melskys]

ok first things first... xp and his gf have 8 children and one on the way? omg is all i can say. but in regards to what you can do, i agree with the other ladies and go see your gp or a counsellor.
good idea to go for sole custody, documentation is the best way to get things to go in your favor, and being the child's mother, whom lives in a stable loving home will also get you browny points. maybe you should try recording a few conversations with xp? that may give others an idea of what he is like towards you etc. is the current arrangments under court order or just privately agreed? if there is no court order you can stop allowing xp to take ds, claiming you're scared for you safety...?

I'm so sorry about what xp is putting you through, my heart sinks everytime i hear about an xp who is putting the other xp thru hell because of a grudge or just because they feel like it... i can kind of understand where you're coming from tho, my xp was very abusive (verbally) while i was pregnant, on top of that i was supporting his lazy ass and paying for all the pre-natal stuff... when i look back on it now i cant believe i put up with his **** for so long... but i broke it off before i had DS and his birth certificate is "father unknown".. and im so glad i did that.

just know that you have loads of support at bb, there are so many lovely ladies (and gents) that will support you when u need it.

cheers