Need Advice - It's Over

[Inanna]

There you go there's the name - so make that call tomorrow darling PLEASE!!!!

[widdly]

It sounds as though moving away would be the best option for you and therefore your little one.

I agree iwth Ianna, you should move ASAP, easier than it sounds though i know.

[Ellee05]

I funnily enough thought about taking the opportunity to move last night and then late last night he told me I couldn't go away with her grrrr. Anyway I rang the lawyers that Divvy recommended and looked at them on the net. I have to make an appointment to speak with an actual lawyer but they couldn't do it on Friday when it suited me - as XH will be at work so I need to call back with a time.

So I saw pschologist/counsellor today and XH actually booked the appointment before me. WOW what an experience, to go back to the start of our relationship. There has been soo much S***. Turns out DH wants to work on "us" and try to make it work with help from counsellor and i walked out thinking yep this is the right decision.

Oops DD has just woken.

Thanks for all the advice and confidence you are giving me xx

[Ellee05]

I told XH that I wouldn't even consider the thought of the possibility of giving our marriage another go until he has sorted out all his issues with the counsellor.

He has been soo good - not that I'm buying that!! But I figure it will buy me some time to sort out how to handle the situation and think about moving etc.

So as it stands at the moment. He is trying hard, but we are separated and I don't see myself ever going back.

Feeling extremely positive and confident.

[Saffi]

Ellee - just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and Z and I know that everything will work out for you both.

[ElleJay]

Hun, I have no advice, but I see your in WA. I'd be happy to go out and have a coffee/tea/drink one day if you ever needed anyone to talk to

[Ellee05]

Thanks Saffi and Liz Jessie. If I do get to Perth again sometime soon I'll be sure to let you know and try catch up for a coffee