Thanks so far for replys and doing so so fast. Great advice so far everyone its helping me help my best mate through a hard time.

jasp - I understand what ur saying about it not being long ago but shes taken bubs to see all her friends but not her father, so i think thats one thing thats got him worried thats shes just trying to cut him out. As for not knowing whats going on i know pretty much everything, about the only thing i dont know is whats going on in her mind. I mean y txt the guy while his away seeing family and say dont bother coming back. He has let her know he wants to be in bubs life already, they where engaged and all before she broke it off.

Joeve - i dont understand how mothers can do such a thing, i have 2 children myself my oldest not being my partners and his dad isnt in his life but thats his choice not mine. His been told if he wants to see alex he can

Lulu - ill tell him about the Family Relationship Centre