In need of unbiased help

[missy_swannie]

sorry I obviously didnt explain myself very well - trying to keep it short

He does work he is a shift manager so he actually works ALOT he seems to mostly be working, sleeping, golfing or watching tv.

[thepixie]

well that's something I guess.... I think Lady Zaidie has given good advice... get some space, see if you feel a greater sense of clarity about it. You really sound unhappy in the relationship, and sometimes it just takes a little bit of distance to make the next step clear. Good luck.

[didispunk]

As you mentioned I think you know what is best to do for yourself and your children,
You can get court orders etc, where he can be with the kids under supervision from a mutual friend etc, my G/F does that now.

There is lots of assitance if you look into it at centrelink.

Best of Luck.. you will make the right decision and go with it.