Currently Xp is being difficult. Had the day off but was not available cos he had to clean his house and i had to go to work.

I am just starting back at work with a 2 week role. My family is really supportive, however they all have their own commitments and theres not usually anyone available at a drop of a hat. ie today . my neighbour had my son and then her daughter got sick and needed to go to the docs( she has 2 of her own) so my brothers GF and my sister took care of him till i got home and i left work early and they were understanding.

XP just dosn't get hes digging his own grave by being demanding of time but unavailable when the opportunity is there because i gain from it.

I am going to persist with trying to work ect. i just wanna know how other ppl manage the commitment to their kids vs their job and not imposing on ppl.