Long story...

Last week ex told me he had a girlfriend. Message went something like this 'i have a girlfriend and yes i love her thought i'd let you know before everyone tells you'.
To me that was more like he was saying he loves her purely to see what sort of reaction he'd get from me. Sure tell me about the girlfriend, but why feel the need to throw that in??

Anyway, last night the girl he was cheating on me with came up on my fb suggestion list. Never met or seen her before so that was an awesome moment! Anyway, being curious (& seeing that she's now with his best mate) I had a look & saw she's friends with a family member of a family close to me (make sense?) & works for ex's boss. I had a sticky at her page, just because she is a cousin of this family I'm close too. Saw a photo of her & her boyfriend, got off fb & went to bed.

This morning something made me look at that photo again. Thats when I noticed the boyfriend is my ex husband. I didn't pay any attention to him last night.

The girl looks all of maybe 18. He's 30. I just didn't feel right about the whole thing, but didn't want to come across as a jelouse ex, but I felt like something had to be said. He physically, sexually, emotionally, socially, verbally, mentally & financially abused me...

I messaged my friend, telling her I was worried about this girl, seeing she looks so young. I was genuinly worried about her going through what I went through...

Anyway, the friend said her mum already knew they were together & wasn't happy with it. The girls mum just turned up at her house & she's going to talk to her about it.

I feel like I shouldn't have said anything... or that this will really come back & bite me hard on the arse. Especially when the niave 18 year old doesn't want to listen... Or when he decides I need to pay for letting out his little secrets (though, he knows that family & I are close, he should know better).

Did I do the right thing? Should I have just left it to him to screw it all up himself & hoped the poor kid didn't get seriously screwed up like I am??