The rings..

[Butterfly Dawn]

I'm kinda superstitious and unless it was from a happy relationship I wouldn't pass them on to anybody but the pawn shop

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unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. its not.
Dr Seuss

[~clover~]

The holiday is for me too. Its only a week out of about 6 the kids will be with their dad. I don't care if he see's them or not (though I do for them). Its for me & the kids. The amount I'd get wouldn't even cover an 8th of the trip, but will add to the spending money

At the same time though, the kids really don't know what their father is doing & its not something I really want them to know, though I have hinted to DD1. So I still may just keep them for the girls. At some point they may let me know if they want them or not. The rings might feel wrong for me to have, but I'm not sure it is ok to sell them. Thats why I asked.

I might give it a few more months & see what happens. See if anything changes.

[Sopdet]

I sold the band & did a happy dance when the money was handed over. He was too scungy to buy me an engagement ring & he used a ring of mine, if it wasn't a family ring (my family) I would have sold that too, I've never worn it again & may melt it down in the future into something else but it has bad memories so if I do that it will be years in the future.