thread: is this rude or am I just oversensitive?

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  1. #1

    Dec 2005
    not with crazy people
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    How did you not plant his face into DS birthday cake????

    get him were it hurts..$$$$$$. If he cant show your son the respect by not flapping his mouth and big noting himself, then use the information he's given you to get even.

    Let's see who get's the best present then doesnt he understand being a father is about loving your child everyday....not once a year

  2. #2
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    Jul 2005
    Sydney
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    Mel, you showed an awesome amount of maturity and self-control (especially in view of the lack of sleep).

    Your DS may have a twat and mostly-absent father, but he's done very well with his mature and even-headed Mama!!

    Good on you for moving on and looking at this objectively.

  3. #3
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    Apr 2004
    Outer East, Melbourne
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    heheheh ... I had the same thought about my ex ... what did I see in him? 12 months after I walked out, he was in debt again and borrowing from his parents. He just never grew up.

    I'd be getting onto CSA about his income - their formula is crappy enough as it is without fathers fudging their income to avoid payments.

    What are you studying with pracs ? I finished a teaching degree this year and had two lots of pracs and didn't have a good experience on my last one, but I wasn't going back for another one

  4. #4
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    Jul 2005
    England
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    maz, I would have, but I'd made DS a Go Diego Go cake, in the shape of Diego's head, which I thought was looking pretty awesome and didn't want him ruining that too!

    Thank you Jennifer13, not often people tell me I've acted with maturity and self control

    barbie-up, I'm doing an Early Childhood Teaching degree. So I had been doing 3 weeks prac at a preschool, had just finished the Friday before the party. But I didn't pass because despite my book work being "excellant" I wasn't confident enough for them, so I have to do it again next year I also had to make up my 2nd year prac this year because of DS breaking his leg last year just before I was supposed to start it. So I'm a bit over prac and uni at the moment.