Oh and I put in our signed parenting plan not to ask for his clothes back in front of her- in fact, at all. It's written in there he is welcome to go in her room and take any clothes that are 'his'! I wouldn't have a clue what's what.. Her wardrobe is pretty large. I op shop quality brand clothes, basics from target and have a decent budget for brand names every now and again and plus I really don't care where her clothes end up- as LONG as she's wearing them. The only thing that ****ed me off recently was her bring home a pair of brand new shoes I'd bought her 6 months before and she'd taken to dads- she'd grown out of them almost unworn.