So its over. He's not happy but I feel its for the best. The military has been notified which means I have 28 days from tomorrow to get my butt out of the house. They will remove what Im keeping and ship one of the cars. Theyll even fly us down to Sydney (I think).

I called Centrelink to let them know but when I was transferred to make an intent to claim parenting payment they hung up on me So Im heading in tomorrow in person to do it.

I have zero $$$ saved, I am recieving the baby bonus in installments so it will come to good use but Im guessing I'll need a TON of money for bond etc

Im terrified of having to find a house - Im a single mother with 3 small kids, who would want to rent to me?

What do I need to apply for a rental property? How much money should I need?
Do we have to go through the courts for visitation orders or can we draw something up ourselves?
Do I ring child support or will Centrelink organise that?

God Ive got a million things to organise and Im already tired.