Welcome to bellybelly! And congratulations on your pregnancy.
I'm so sorry for what happened with bubs father. He's being a total jerk, not to mention selfish! He might come to his senses at a later date. In the mean time, focus on YOU and your growing baby. If you want, you could stop talking to him completely, at least for a while.
In regards to child support etc. If you want, you can put "father unknown" on the birth certificate and still collect the maximum centrelink payments (which is parenting payment single, family tax benefit a & b and a few other allowances and possibly rent assistance). They can't deny you your payments just because you (theoretically) don't know who the father is.
hi hun,
can't really offer anything else more than the wonderful women already have.
just wanted to give you and to let you know whatever choice you make all us her on bb will support you and be there.
just remember this is YOUR BODY and YOUR BABY = YOUR DECISION.
take care huni and let us know how you go.
rach xxxx
Last edited by Footsteps; August 11th, 2008 at 07:07 AM.
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i've been on a similar journey, bit further down the track as youll see below, if you ever want to vent or ask silly questions, jest send message direct, during day i type with one hand coz i have bubs, but i reply proper in ervening when he gone to bed. Chin up, bringing new life into the world is an honor and privelidge, it's . . . . unforgettable, priceless, meaningful (cheer)
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