Sounds like a very good thing the relationship was so brief. He sounds like a horrid person!
As far as the dating scans, lots of people have them, but lots of people don't. You need to do what is best for you and your baby because all this stress is no good. I'm really not sure how you should deal with this, but you need to look at what YOU want. If it were me, I would be telling him he can either be involved and be civil, or if the abuse is going to continue, then he won't be involved at all. If the abuse continues and you decide he will not be involved, you may even need to look into changing your number and possibly even speaking to the police about an order to prevent him contacting you.
I agree with the others about ceasing contact. I'd also start a diary of the communication you do have with him (dates, times and every word written/said) you may need it in the future.
What a ****er.
Some people get a dating scan early and some people don't. There's no need for them.
You've done your best to do the right thing. Now the ball's in his court. He can either be civil or have nothing to do with you. Since 2004 it has been illegal to send abusive text messages so if he keeps it up you can take your phone to the police and ask them to charge him.
Welcome to BB.
Last edited by Phteven; August 23rd, 2012 at 07:17 PM.
Sounds like a very good thing the relationship was so brief. He sounds like a horrid person!
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