Sorry just another release..

[Butterfly Child]

Thx so much guys, just after i posted that i had a msg from him asking me what the big deal was that he wanted to see DD but had to wait till later....OMG

i Just rung him again as i know how nasty txt msging can get and acted like i didnt no what he was talking about and that we both had plans this afternoon and he said he was looking forward to seeing grace and i said dd was looking forward to seeing him to to both today and monday. And said i was fine he couldnt make it but i couldnt do dinner as we had plans.... omg now i feel like the bad guy !!!!!

this whole thing never gets easier..

[ladybird11]

No no no - you aren't the bad guy - don't fall for that line hun!

He is her father, he had an arrangement to meet with you and his DD, he broke that arrangement!

You have upheld your moral standing hun, rest assured!

[Oorki Galoorki]

Emma i think you may need to get a formal agreement in place as he is messing you and grace about so much!

[Cupcake]

Emma you are MOST DEFINATELY NOT the bad guy!!! Your XP drives ME bonkers i cant imagine how you must be feeling, good job on remaining calm tho honey! I think its time for him to step up and organise with you when he can see DD not you organising with him...

[Footsteps]

em i agree with dou coz this isn't fair on grace or you xxx huge hugs xxxx

[Butterfly Child]

The truth is im scared to do anything like that as im scared ill stir up something and he'll take her away if that makes sense, thats my absolute biggest fear but at the same time i know it probably a long time coming
God i wish this was easier and he would just grow up!Cant believe i fell in love with someone so selfish and irresponisble