It took alot of balls.. but i said yes...

[Pandora]

Of course you are doing the right thing. Unless thetes a danger in them being with him, in which case you obviously wouldn't be giving him access. It good that he's seeing them before the weekend too so he's not so much of a stranger iykwim?

I think it's a really good plan.

[Muffy]

Thanks so much for the support.
They are in no danger, but i've just been told that DD has asthma (we spent a fun night in hosi) and he smokes so i said under NO circumstances are you to smoke around her as i dont want to risk anything happing to her becuase im so far away!!. I said im sure you dont want to be responsible for triggering another attack either as he lives about an hour from a hospital.

[Muffy]

LOL you girls are too quick for me!

Trish - We are in similar situation with our Dads, unfortunatly our dad didnt really want anything to do with us when my parents split i was 13 at the time and i saw him once 7 years ago.
He lives in QLD and i told him i was going to be up there only 3 hours away from where he lives and i havnt heard anything back.
Maybe sub-conciously thats my reason for making this decision, i know how much it hurts to have a father that wants nothing to do with you...
I have also never said anything bad about the kids dad in front of them, its just not right.
to you xx

Em - Thankyou lovely xx

Lulu- i think i hate HER more than i hate him.. she'd wanna stay out of my way