thread: Update: my ex has tossed the 3rd to be wife out !! Long story grab a cuppa

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  1. #1
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    Apr 2009
    Bayside Melb.
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    Update: my ex has tossed the 3rd to be wife out !! Long story grab a cuppa

    Brief hx: I left my beautiful not husband back in April 1st 2011 after 2 yrs of abuse (4 yrs together all up)....the new and newly preggers women (an old friend of mine originally) moves in November 2011.
    She has baby July 2012 WE divorce Sept 2012 !! We together had 2 kids ds 4 and ds 2 ...

    She was the live in nanny but she couldnt see it at the time ....'oh he is wonderful and wouldnt hurt a fly' she wuld keep telling me on the very few occassions i would speak with her.. I agreed to 50 50 care as she was there ... so whe helped raise my boys for the last 16 months.....HOWEVER behind close doors was another story ....

    All my old threads over the years i have put on BB she could write..... very very scary (removed by moderator) !

    This women came to me and apologised for believing his lies and his perception that i was a nasty cow and a hopeless mum not to mention a promiscious (removed by moderator)...delightful not.. She was told to(removed by moderator) last monday as she had enough of feeling used and abused and the hired help without payment ....but after she was told to (removed by moderator) she did alright she OD and ended up in ICU for 48 hours then was discharged and rang me ....
    she has a 6 month baby and WAS preggers to the second however had lost the baby and buried it just 7 days before hand and he turned nasty and kicked her out .....

    He is a narscitic sociopath and i cnat believe what im hearing ..... what i putn up with and ran away from she lived ....


    WE are both helping each other with de briefing and we are in contact with all authorities as we have these young children and this weird man to be concerned with....

    to be continued....
    Last edited by Amity; March 25th, 2013 at 02:43 PM. : Swear words removed by moderator.

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jul 2008
    Eastern Surburbs, Melbourne
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    to you both.

    Let's hope no other female goes near him to go through what you both have.

  3. #3
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    Dec 2011
    Surrounded by sand
    883

    Big hugs for you. I hope you get the help and support you need and want.

  4. #4
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    Sep 2007
    travelling
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    Sounds like my ex. We split just over 12 months ago, still married, his fiance is due to have their first baby in July. I was over East for christmas & took the kids to see him. I saw for myself that he is exactly the same with her (a teenager) as he was with me.
    Plus he leaves voice messages on MY phone of them fighting & crap. Texts me to tell me the baby is a boy over a week ago (knows I would've liked another boy), but hasn't told the kids yet.
    I'm interstate for a reason.

  5. #5
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    Apr 2009
    Bayside Melb.
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    it is bloody scary ....but im hoping after an appointment with authorities tomorrow that i will know what to do next.....

    my son who is 4 1/2 told me in the car 'i dont want to go to dads without xxx there i just want to stay with your forever and ever' i said ok honey ....

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Melbourne City
    390

    Why stay in contact with someone that betrayed you? Can't you see that she has only contacted you after her relationship disaggregated?