oh love you guys, knew you would get a laugh out of his stupidity!

Lu, yep, my Dad did just this and probably still does 15 years later! THere is a good reason why there is very little chance i will ever be intersted in a man with children unless he is widowed (or whatever you call it for men). I dont want some other poor womans seconds.

rumpled, ah, so thats the secret...shame i am so attracted to older men.