I think in that case definitely no. He often doesn't answer his phone, so how are you supposed to know where she is? If he wants to see her tell him you won't let her go with him until you have a parenting plan in place first. BG/ mum1984 I think she would be within her rights to do that wouldn't she? it's safer for you too Kitt3n because without anything in place you don't actually have any legal documents to rely on to get her back if he doesn't return her as promised.