thread: xp has someone in the picture. He wants me to meet.

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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jul 2008
    Eastern Surburbs, Melbourne
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    Alot of growing up has probably occurred within the last 2 years.
    It is good that he is being so upfront about this girl. If they are going to have your DD she might want to know about you but she also might have heard horror stories from others about meeting 'the exwife' and not want to go there.
    Sure, you are hurt and will ask the why questions but if you know the breakup was for the best you will have peace of mind.
    Hope it all works out for you both

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2008
    Over The Rainbow
    1,142

    Rivlas-hes only just started having dd, with his mum mostly unsupervised, i agree im happy hes been so honest and upfront with me, ( asthats what i did with him when i started geting a bit more serious with now dp so he got to meet and know who dd would be spending time with) i guess i just didnt expect it. things are alot better with xp which is gd. im not complaining.

    Satya- how horrible i would have been angry too hun !

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2008
    Over The Rainbow
    1,142

    i did abit of fb stalking to see who she is.. and shes gorgeous! i really dont know why i looked.. arh

    i know shes probaly i really nice person as long as she i dont have a prob with her.

    didnt hear from xp last week so he didnt come see dd apparently there coming up this w.e from seeing something on fb, but im yet to hear from him that hes coming up and wants to see dd.

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jul 2009
    557

    aww hun, speaking from experience try not to 'stalk' on fb. I learnt the hard way
    I hope your XP gets in contact and comes to see DD

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Sunny Qld
    14,682

    Awww honey, she's probably done a bit of facebook stalking and seen how gorgeous you are!!! So she's probably feeling the same way

  6. #6

    Feb 2008
    With my awesome cherubs
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    :yeahthat: its always hard meeting the exs new gf especially when you have kids together i remember the first time XP told me about his gf then within 6 months she was pregnant and they got married fingers crossed that all goes smoothly just think of the gorgeous Grace if you feel its getting too much when you meet her our babies will always guide us through

  7. #7
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    Nov 2008
    North Haven, NSW
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    Im a FB stalker too LOL.

    I agree with Arimeh tho, she's probably just as scared as you are! Especially meeting little G! Adults can sensor themselves when it comes to critism, kids however not so much hehe.

    I hope it all goes well lovely x

  8. #8
    2014 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Apr 2010
    In the mad house at loopy land
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    I also think she is prob scared to meet you to.You know the whole being the ex and having his child ect. Dont stress to much hun