DH and I are still discussing boys names and it has only been the last few days where we have had this discussion - do we use the long or short version of a name?
We both really like Olly for a boy but DH wants to call him Oliver on the birth certificate so that if he needs a more "mature" option for when he's older (.ie a lawyer, manager! DH's words not mine!) then he has that choice. I don't agree - I think you should name the baby what you plan on calling them.
I also don't think Oliver matches Mackenzie as well as Olly does. DH also doesn't think names have to match but I do!!! I think Mackenzie is more modern and Oliver more classic.
For the record I actually like these other names too:
I like Olly better then oliver although i do like oliver !!!
We named our daughter Abbie and not Abigail because we really like the name abbie.
Goodluck on your decision
We call Jazz... Jazz lol, but her name is Jasmine. Same reason as your DH, wanted her to have a more serious name for life lol and Jazz is just her nickname. I call her smoosh-head as much as I call her jazz, but probably wouldnt put that on the birth certificate though.
I think its ok, and normal, to plan on a nickname, and have a 'real' name too. So... sorry... I kind of agree with your DH.
I think Oliver and Mackenzie go together really nicely!
Personally I tend to agree with you that you should name your child what you intend to call it, and that is one of my own "rules" for name choices, BUT, I love the full version of Oliver better than Olly. I think I prefer Ollie to Olly too, if you do just go the short version.
I think Mackenzie goes just fine with Oliver, especially since they don't have the same "ie" ending...
Sorry Jordie, I'm with DH too...it's cute for a little bub, but what happens if he's a....I don't know a wrestler or something really blokey?
I think Oliver and Mackenzie are great.
Saying that though...we named Nate, Nate - not Nathaniel as Darcy couldn't pronounce it....so I'm really useles aren't I?
Is there a different 'Olly' name that you like? Ollian? Ollivander? Ollis?
We gave our sons one name we considered a bit more conservative (that's Si's first name, and Riv's middle name), so they have options. I know many people who are known by their middle names.
So you could always go for a more conservative middle name.
Yep, I'd go the full name and call him Olly. That's was the plan with our DD (although she's very rarely called the short version!) and we have the same plan if this bub is a girl.
i think if you want him to be called Olly, then that's what you should call him. if you call him Oliver then people will call him Oliver. will that annoy you?
we went through this issue when naming ds2 and decided in the end to call him the 'nickname' as his fullname, as that's what we wanted his name to be and didn't want to be conservative just to please others.
Last edited by Ginger; July 8th, 2009 at 03:56 PM.
i see both side!!
im the same as rainy with DD2 name, i liked amelia DH like amelie but we both liked millie so figured why bother with the other names and i didnt want to explain her name all the time...BUT i see your DH's point as well!
We are huge fans of nicknames and always tend to shorten peoples names so the names we have picked had to have a short version or they were off the list! Oliver is actually on our list as we like Ollie too.
Now, to your original question. I tend to agree you should name your baby what you intend on calling them BUT I think some names are cute for kids but not so cute for adults. Olly is one of those names that I personally think sounds a bit strange for an adult. Plus I love the name Oliver
Our DS#2 is Oliver - but everyone calls him Ollie. He is Oliver on his birth certificate cause thats the name we had intended for him. I think my Mum was the first person to call him Ollie and it has stuck. The teachers at school call him Ollie even though we enrolled him as Oliver. He rarely gets called Oliver atm but i am sure that will change later in life.
There is a little boy named Olly in my DD's playgroup ... and the first time i heard his name i don't know why but it sounded kind of silly to me ... I think because i instantly thought of him as an adult with this name.
My girls both have longer names. Jaz has always been called Jazmyne, but Brianna has been Bri since she was 4 months old. & thats what everyone calls her.
DH was really against calling Jazmyne Jaz when others did it, but was over it by the time we had Bri. Its still awkward for me to say Jaz, but I do sometimes.
Just remember that most names will be shortened unless the child or parent demands that its not. Even Bri's daycare teachers call her Bri.
I do agree that Olly won't be great on a 30 year old biker with tattoo's Or a highly professional lawyer TBH. Sorry
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The long or short version?
I kind of agree with your DH.
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