thread: engaged?

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jan 2009
    i live in sale, victoia!
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    engaged?

    hi there, i was just wondering how to know when the baby engages! i asked the doc and he said i would feel discomfort in my inner upper thighs! is this true? i seem to be going to the toilet alot more the past 2 weeks like every hour to hour and a half at night and i find it hard to walk too much! i am also getting alot of lower back pain! and if i move around too much the braxton hicks just start going off! im only 35 weeks pregnant!
    Last edited by Kittytat; July 20th, 2009 at 02:29 PM. : wrong heading

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Oct 2008
    Victoria
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    I wondered the same thing & someone told me that I would know when the baby was starting to engage. They were right!!
    You'll notice that your belly is lower & because of this you'll also be able to take a deep breath (finally!!). There will also be more pressure on the bladder, so more frequent trips to the loo. You will also have aches in your lower back, legs & groin area & will find it harder to move around.
    My midwife told me that babies can engage as much as 4 weeks before the due date & still be late!! My baby started to engage around 35 weeks too.
    Sounds like things have definitely started to get moving for you!!

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber & MPM

    Feb 2007
    Melbourne
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    I've known the exact moment my last bub engaged and when this one did! This bub engaged last Thursday. I started getting "twanging" pain in my upper thighs/groin area and I feel like I have a bowling ball between my legs LOL! Less room in the 'ol bladder too

  4. #4
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    May 2006
    Igglepiggle Land
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    Ah, bowling bowl inbetween my legs....Thanks Trish - thats exactly what I've started feeling today!!

  5. #5
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    Jan 2007
    SA
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    Strike!!

  6. #6
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jul 2008
    Eastern Surburbs, Melbourne
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    Kittytat if you are having it at the local hospital give the midwives a call and ask them
    All the best and if you have it on a weekend you might have my SIL helping deliver your baby