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thread: Are they kidding?

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    SE suburbs, Vic
    1,377

    Question Are they kidding?

    I was asked last week if I had book DD into 3 y.o. kinder yet. Are they serious? Do I really need to book her in now? She's only 1

    Are kinders all the same? and what sort of cost is involved?

  2. #2
    Lucy in the sky with diamonds.

    Jan 2005
    Funky Town, Vic
    7,070

    There aren't many 3 yr old kinders available so they are in demand. Stick her name on the list anyway

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
    11,462

    definatly do it! some around here need names from birth DD1 was booked in at 18 months and even that was late

  4. #4
    Life Subscriber

    Jul 2006
    Brisbane
    6,683

    It seems ridiculous doesn't it! It was only after DS2 was born and I was asked if I had put his name down for kindy yet that I found out I should have done it for DS1 as soon as he was born. Luckily they introduced a prep year in Qld since then and fewer mums are sending kids to kindy now, so we still got a spot.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    ...not far enough away :)
    1,413

    It doesn't hurt to be on the list & yes 3yr old kinder spaces usually (well in qld) are only given out after the 4yr old spaces are filled. So if you really want them to attend YES the name goes on the list very early & even then you may not get a spot.

  6. #6
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    South Eastern Suburbs, Vic
    6,054

    It's insane isn't it. As far as I understand, 3yo kindy is mostly about socialisation and getting your kids used to structure, so if you found a playgroup with structure that might work just as well? Our playgroup has playtime, with rules, then when the bell rings it's outside play time, and then they're supposed to wash their hands on their way back in, then it's snack time where they all have to wait and sing a cute little grace before they can eat and then storytime/songtime. There's quite a bit of structure, they know what's expected of them and what happens when, so I think that will be good enough for me.

    So if you can't get your bub into 3yo, or don't want to, there's another good option. If you can find a good playgroup.

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Jan 2005
    Down by the ocean
    6,110

    Yes do it now! We are in a high growth area I was told to enrol C at the 2yo check.

    Unless you know you are going to move before then cos it will cost you $50

    We had to enrol M in kinder at 6 weeks in Narre Warren

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Jul 2005
    Rural NSW
    6,975

    Hah! I have a 3yo (just turned) and I haven't booked him in anywhere yet. I probably should. My other 2 kids went to 3yo kinder. I'm just not really inspired by any of the places around here anymore I guess. I don't know what I'll be doing myself yet (next year) so it's hard to know where will be the best place. If I am working then the council kinder won't work because the hours are too irregular.

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    6,869

    Yep birth around here too.

  10. #10
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    South Eastern Suburbs, Vic
    6,054

    Are you talking about actual 4yo kinder Sam?

  11. #11
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    SE suburbs, Vic
    1,377

    Thats insane.

    They should tell you at the MCHN checks or something, coz unless this person hadnt of asked me I wouldnt have even thought about it

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Jul 2005
    Rural NSW
    6,975

    I didn't have my other two kids on waiting lists, strange. With my DD we just rocked up and enrolled her at the start of the year... around the end of January. It was a kinder linked to a private girls school and it was full time hours... so maybe that's why... it was quite expensive but i ended up working there too and recieved a %25 discount on the fees.

    With my DS I enrolled him the year before, no dramas.

    I don't understand if you put them on some waiting list from birth how on earth do you know what you'll be doing (working or not) or even if you will be living there??? So what do people do who move to a different area when their child turns 3???

  13. #13
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Ouiinslano
    5,303

    Put your name down - easier to change your mind later and take it off than it is to put it on (you'd be at the bottom)

  14. #14
    Registered User
    Add fionas on Facebook

    Apr 2007
    Recently treechanged to Woodend, VIC
    3,473

    Where we are, you can't put their name down until they turn 2 but they advise you to do it asap after their second birthday. We have to put down three kinders and they don't guarantee you your first choice which is a bummer because I don't drive and there's only one I can walk to without going up a massive hill and being in pain (still have dodgy pelvis) so I'll be completely stuffed if I can't get in to the only one that's accessible for me.

  15. #15
    Registered User

    Dec 2006
    Out of my mind. Back in five minutes...
    3,304

    My local center takes names from 12w gestation (with a $20 fee). If you don't have your name down by the day of birth, the chance of getting into that center is virtually impossible... You have reminded me to go and pop this littles ones name down...

  16. #16
    Registered User

    Dec 2005
    In Bankworld with Barbara
    14,222

    Rufalina, that's just crazy! 12wks gestation?! *walks away shaking her head in disbelief*

  17. #17
    Moderator

    Oct 2004
    In my Zombie proof fortress.
    6,449

    I remember being hassled by this back in Melbourne. I was not too worried as I could use the kinder at my childcare centre and had priority enrolment due to DD1 already being there. I was still not left alone though, as others thought I should look into other kinders, I understood their reasoning, but the local one was walking distance and it meant I could still work a full day, as they would just put her back into childcare once kinder was over.

    I think the whole system is awful and stressful. Enrolment should only be taken the year prior, whilst pregnant is just ridiculous and unfair to those who move into the area later.

  18. #18
    Registered User

    Dec 2006
    Out of my mind. Back in five minutes...
    3,304

    Yep. It is very hard filling in an application form... Gender unknown, DOB Unknown, Name Unknown etc...

    Astrid - I agree totally, but I filled in the form to secure my place, but I do feel like I am fostering a system that is crazy and competative... And who knows what the center will be like in 3 years... They charge with staff etc...

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