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Shar from previous thread, no probs over chat hope I was some help thanks for the thoughts for tomorrow
so as most of you know tomorrow is my sweet babies, 6th angel bday I am feeling incredibly guilty over how depressed I am feeling I look at jack and my ever growing huge belly and think what right do I have to be disappointed in what life has given me, but then I just want to cause I want my Jack to know his big sister I want boo to know its big sister I want her here with me not just in my heart and memory....
rach Don't feel guilty, of course its natural to feel how you do. Yes you have a beautiful son and another baby on the way but you lost your first born and that will always be with you. Take care over this hard time.
Rach - tomorrow wil lbe hard on you. Wat you have written sounds very normal. It must be very difficult. Just take some time to reflect, and remember that although she is not here now, she was a little person that was too good for earth.
In a way I am sort of relieved that J failed the hearing test, as it proves that all I have been saying was correct. I jsut needed someone to believe me that there was something wrong.
Today 1 year ago my cousin lost her little boy. He wasn't born for another 24 hours, but he died in her womb. I am terribly sad for her, and hope that this week is not too hard for her.
Not too good really. She is on anti d's and is still terribly upset. I think as people begin to forget, it gets harder. Hopefully she will start to feel better now that the first anniversary is over. All the firsts are done. I just wish she would be able to have anotehr baby, but it hasn't happened for them so far. I suppose her body will know when the time is right, and it isn't right at the moment.
This time 3yrs ago my waters were broken and we were waiting for labour to start. I can remember being sooooooooo nervous and worried that after all we'd been through something would go wrong and we'd lose our precious miracle. Seems like a lifetime ago
Happy birthday to my little bear Jett; your a rockstar and mummy, daddy, ripley and river love you very much xxxx
Better get my butt into gear, gotta shower then go pick up his balloon bouquet and cake so his Dad can bring him over to see his presents and decorations. Im so excited he is gonna flip at what he see's!
A big happy birthday to ourbirthday buddy James too! Have a great day!
i havent forgotten you all and i hope you havent forgotten me either
just wanted to share my great news with you wonderful women..
steve and i are expecting our third!! im such a glutton for punishment hahaha!
hope your all well and the kiddies are too!
this pregnancy is so different..always nautious! super sensitive! and omg my gums are swollen and i cant clench my teeth together! i have never had this and its killing me!! arghh
hehe anyone experienced this?? what did you do??
PS GO THE MELBOURNE STORM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sorry i havent been around much, lifes very busy atm.. exh mum is having bone marrow transplant on the 9th of oct so trying to make sure she gets some quality time with the girls in before just in case. and I have a boyfriend now , which things are going really well with. been together for almost 3 months now
Having just readover the new post....I cant help but wonder how much our lives have changed since we had out babies..the joys and hurdles we've all been thrown.
Rach - its never selfish to think of a baby that should be here that isnt. hon.....I hope that in time the pain may ease a bit...although in saying that my mum still to this day thinks and miss's her first born..my sister who would have been 54 this year. She doesnt talk about her much but I see the pain in her face and hear her tone change when she talks about her.
Meg - Wilhelm failed 2 hearing tests hon im always here you know that. I cant believe its a year already since your cousin lost her boy I hope that she finds strength soon. I hope J has a fantastic day
Nelle - OMG you moving in already!! Awesome chick!!!!! Im so jealous..I want to build
Ness - fantastic news that you have found someone again. LOVE the pics on FB ...gave me a good giggle. Hope MIL pull's through hon for the girls
SHell - I dont follow footy but my heart broke for you yesterday. Thats all I could think about, not about hte team but about you ROFL
Anna - Now you dont have 3 under 3 hon HAPpy birthday Jett myster We drove past the turn off to Blacktown and I screamed out the window to you - HELLLOOOO SWEETYYYYY...did ya hear me
:wave: hello eveyrone else hope your all fit and well
Had a ball in QLd and NSW.....then we come home to hail and friggen 12 degree's....brrrrrrr. I cant wait for June next year.
Jed and I have started planning our house...yep we want to build..we need to build lol but we need to pay some debt off first so for the next 2 years we're going to be tight fisted so and so's. We're looking at a 5 bedroom house with 2 living area's and an office for moi. We'll build through Jed's work cause of the discount and such and will be building it on about 1 - 3 acres. I told jed I dont want to renovate agian..bugger that this place still isnt finished!! If he has the urge to build I'll let him make a guest house later on...and maybe a studio for moi.
Ambz- Congrats!!! So when are you due? Will you find out the sex?
Ness- Thats great you've found a new someone. Hope it brings lots happiness. Let us know how mil goes, do the girls understand she is sick?
Maz- thanks for thinking of me on my heartache day! I will slowly get over it I hope! Your holiday photos looked great and yeah you had to come back to shiat whether here! Will you be staying in same area when you build? How exciting.
Went to telstra dome today with Ash to cheer the poor saints after yesterday, they were so devastated I felt so bad for them!
Ness - Glad oyu are going well. I hope MIL's treatment goes really well.
Shell - Good on you for going down to cheer them on even in their loss.
Maz - How come W failed his hearing test? Does he have a loss? J has what they call "glue ear" both ears are quite blocked. That is why I have to retest in 8 weeks in case he is getting over the scarlet fever still.
Gotta go, got a mountain of washing to hang.... Oh the joys. I wish I could afford a house keeper!
just a quicky scool holidays at the end of the week, and my team are into the grand final..GO THE EELS.. im trying to get tickets now so me and my boys can go..they love league..oh and they play it too.
great catching up maz..and that pic...wasnt the best hun...lol
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thanks for the thoughts for tomorrow
ever growing huge belly and think what right do I have to be disappointed in what life has given me, but then I just want to
cause I want my Jack to know his big sister I want boo to know its big sister I want her here with me not just in my heart and memory....
Don't feel guilty, of course its natural to feel how you do. Yes you have a beautiful son and another baby on the way but you lost your first born and that will always be with you. Take care over this hard time.
I can't beleive its been a year for your cousin this past year has flown by hasn't it
I hope that she finds strength soon. I hope J has a fantastic day
...gave me a good giggle. Hope MIL pull's through hon for the girls
HAPpy birthday Jett myster 
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