How did you tell you weren't coming back from maternity leave?

[Winter]

I am pretty sure that I have decided not to return to work. My DH does FIFO anyway so I would only be available every fortnight as I am not happy to put DD into childcare & I have no family around to help out instead. I figure that being a mum is my job now and I want to be there for DD as she grows. With her Dad away for half the time, I think its important that she has a full time mummy.

My boss is a bit funny, I'm not sure how well he'll take it - all depends on his mood, the stars alignment etc could be not a big deal or he'll try to talk me into something that sounds good at the time but then wont be delivered. Like flexi hours but then expect 8-5.

So, should I write a letter of resignation then hand it over during a face-to-face meeting? How did you do it? My job is for a medium sized, family owned, corporate client based business to give you an idea of setting.

[BrightSparkles]

I did both (letter & face to face meeting) but i was going through a horrible time with my B***ch boss so I couldn't wait to get out of the place!!

[Neoma]

I am in the same boat. I am in the process of of trying for a second year off but if that falls thru I don't think I will be returning either. So, I am no help but intrested in what responses you get. Good Luck

[~StarBright~]

I just moved states!!! I did tell my boss face to face- but it just kind of covered me for the whole why i wasnt coming back and definaltely getting out of being convinced to "just come for a day or two a week"

If your not too close with your boss- i would just write a letter and if he wants to talk about it, then he can call you and arrange to see you.

Good luck!!

[maz]

If your worried about him talking sweet to you then do the letter hon and no face to face.

Having to worry about what kind of mood he is in would be enough fo rme to say BYE BYE! Its time to put your family and feeling first.....work comes second. Its hard to do.....but once you have cut the ties then you'll breath easier

[~Kim~]

I had a forced meeting, he gave me the options (which really left me with only one option) and I resigned verbally and handed my etter in later that arvie.

I'm with Maz though....

[Winter]

I might go in next week when DH is home and have letter with me to make it formal. I feel good about this decision, my family is my first priority and I don't love my job enough to sacrifice time with DD & DH.

Thanks for your responses!

[*Infinity*]

Exactly what I was going to suggest Winter. If you're comfortable make a time to go in and let your boss know face to face, but have the letter all written and ready to hand over so there is absolutely no room for them to try and negotiate.

I'm going to be in a similar boat in a few months time and I'm fairly sure I won't be returning.

Good luck!