Is it just a coincidence??

[Turkish Delight]

I have a deceased friend, who comes and visits me in my dreams every 2 months or so.

I went to a medium/clairvoyant in Augustish 2008 and he came through. He passed on some messages which he wanted to get through to his mother and asked me to tell her, which i did.

The medium asked if we had any problems with lights in our house, in which we did and she said it was him. The rangehood light which we keep on during the night (for the kids) always blew and i mean always. There would be times where it would blow every week, or every forthnight.

I then went to Lisa Williams in September and astonishingly enough he came through there too, however he had brought somebody else with him, and her energy was stronger so the main focus was this other female energy. I am so honestly sure that the male energy was him as all the stuff Lisa said was "him". How he died, where, his humour, his build etc... Oh and she said that he wanted his mum to know that he came through! I haven't been able to tell her as i haven't seen her and i really don't want her to think that i am looney ITMS. Not many people believe in mediums etc...

Well, from that day forth (since August) our rangehood light has not blown, ever! My Dh has even noticed. And, i haven't seen my friend in my dream since. I miss him and i want him to visit me..

Do you think it is a coincidence? Or is that he has delivered his message to me and i have delivered it to his mother, and now he is gone??

[Netix]

Good morning TD, I don't think it was a coincidence. I think it was your friend, and that he may have been trying to contact you or let you know he was around and to pass on these messages to his mum. Every boy's (and man for that matter) mum is their universe and he must have had so much love for her that he needed these messages to get through somehow, and you are the most receptive.

I don't know Lisa Williams, or what she said was really about. I do know that it would be hard to go and talk to your friend's mum again though.

I think, as hard as it may be, that he delivered his messages, he knows they got through, and now he could move on. I am sorry you miss your friend.

[Turkish Delight]

I hope i get to see him soon (in my dreams, i mean!) otherwise, i will get very cross with him when i see over at the other side!

Thanks Netix. I knew it wasn't a coincidence, but just wanted to ask to see if i had the right jist ITMS.

xxoo

[Netix]

You're welcome.

[Footsteps]

my dad is a medium so if a message has been passed to you, if at all possible pass it on. it's probably brought his mum comfort hun. i don't think its coincidence at all.
xox

[Turkish Delight]

He is back!

I am so glad to see him again (in my dreams). He was soooo sexy in his grey suit (second time i've seen him in a grey suit). We got engaged in my dreams (he was somebody i thought i would marry as his parents just loved me!) and he was hugging me from behind as we were walking along this crowded road. He was showering me with kisses. Oh, it was beautiful. I woke up and looked up and told him softly that i loved him very much. I miss him. Even if we weren't going to end up getting married, i still wouldn't have wanted him to die. *sheds a tear*

My question to you is...

I see a white apparition type thing, no definition to it as in it doesn't have arms and legs but a white thing in the same place most of the time. But i can only see it with the corner of my eye. If i turn my head to to it, it's not there, but if i'm focussing elsewhere, i can see it through the corner of my eyes. Always in the same spot.

Am i hallucinating? Or is it him?

Do you think i should see a medium again??

[Netix]

I am tingling and my eyes are watering. I think its him.... I don't know why he's back, maybe he knew you needed (or missed him). I see similar apparitions, but mine are usually black ( not sure what THAT means!)

Your dream sounds so lovely. Maybe it could be read that he's always 'right behind you' supporting you and loving you (all those kisses!), no matter who's around (the crowd). What do you think?

[Turkish Delight]

Oh Netix. I have missed him very much. I can feel him around me sometimes.
You know that apparition type thing, it stands there and watches me.
I'm glad he's back though~

[Netix]

I would think that is him watching you. Try saying hello. You may not get a very noticeable response, but he may flicker the light, blow on the curtain (or breathe on your hair), or something like that.

I hope your day is better now..